Thursday, January 17, 2013

Can Married Couples Live Together in Assisted Living Facilities and Nursing Homes?

By Bob Gregory

I think it is time for my parents to move into an Assisted Living Facility or a Nursing Home. Can they live together? The answer is yes, if you choose the right facility. There are continuing care retirement communities, assisted living facilities and nursing homes that have apartments or rooms for married couples.

Here are some things to consider when searching for a facility to accommodate both of your parents:

  • If one parent is not as healthy as the other look for a facility that can meet the needs of the parent with greater health issues
  • Look for a facility that provides activities that meet both of your parents needs and interests
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  • Look for a facility that will only charge for the services needed and provided on an individual basis.  This is important if one parent has greater health issues.
  • Make sure the facility does an initial assessment to ensure the right placement for your parents and make sure that follow-up assessments are done periodically
  • See if there are other married couples living at the facility and if activities are provided for married couples
  • If your parents have to be in separate facilities for memory care or health reasons, find a facility that has an assisted living unit and a memory care unit or skilled nursing unit. Also make sure the healthier spouse will be able to visit their spouse whenever they want.

When people have been married for many years the thought of being separated is frightening. It can also be overwhelming when one spouse has to be the caregiver for the other spouse. In most cases a facility that can accommodate spouses with varying health needs – you just need to do your homework!

If you find you need an Assisted Living Facility, Nursing Home or any other type of Senior Facility, I hope you will consider

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  1. My grandmother has been looking for a new place to live that is more with those who are in her age range. Being able to have these communities for the elderly really sounds incredible. I personally think that it is a great idea for those who live on their own to have a place with those who are their age. Thank you for sharing.

  2. Aw, this was an incredibly nice post.Finding the time and actual effort to produce a good article on Assisted Living Facilities and Nursing Homes.

  3. Yes they can live together it doesn't matter for couple. Yes this will help people like who wanted to stay with their pairs and provide all the comforts by hiring a perfect in home care taker.

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  5. That's a great question. I think it really depends on the location and the care provider you select. My company, Home Instead Senior Care, provides assisted living services in Concord NH, but these services are provided at a home location so that senior can remain safe and comfortable in their own homes. Perhaps something similar might be a good option for your parents? I hope everything worked out!

  6. Thanks so much for this information.  I have to let you know I concur on several of the points you make here and others may require some further review. but I can see your viewpoint.